A couple of years ago I ventured into pet rescue adoption. I immediately became a foster failure with my first Shih Tzu foster, Katie. A year later after losing my father, I also lost a foster. Do to the rescue that I was working with at the time not willing to give proper care, she died in my arms the following morning after seeing the vet. Though my vet comforted me as to the degree of her illness, I was never going to let that happen again. Never would I let someone dictate to me of how a dog should be cared for.
A couple of months later after this incident I received a call from another rescue stating they knew of an older Shih Tzu that needed help. His owners were no longer able to care for him do to the loss of jobs and they were ready to euthanize him. I immediately contacted him and we agreed to an owner surrender, with the help of another rescue. I picked him up and immediately met with another rescue who was kind enough to take him to the vet for me. Later that evening I picked him up, as I became his foster mom (fm).
When Mr. JoeJo came to me he was very aggressive. In the beginning I was actually afraid to give him medication. Now I have been training dogs for a long time, but this little guy scared the living petunias out of me. Now he just didn’t bite… he came after you like a little shark and wouldn’t stop. To be able to give him meds, I used a “no bite” collar. It’s hard plastic that fits completely around the neck. So with every administration of the medications I would also give a yummy treat. JoeJo started getting the idea and with time we were able to give meds without the collar and move to a soft cloth muzzle. Over time, collars or muzzles were no longer needed, he willingly would take meds because they were no longer scary or hurtful. Heck, I don’t even have to treat afterwards.
I learned to enjoy the little things the most about Mr. JoeJo, are all the little milestones that come along the way. Carrying a stuffed toy in his mouth, I call them stuffies. Being able to kiss his cheek or pet him under the chin. Finding out he gets excited when he gets a new outfit put on and cuddling into my body and rubbing his face against me.
Mr. JoeJo was a senior with special needs. His day consisted of receiving a muscle relaxant 2x a day to enable him to eat (degenerating jaw) which we eventually phased out, Anapril (Canine Cognitive Dysfunction) 1x a day, Baytril Otic (ears) 2x a day, Cyclosporine (eyes) 2x a day, fluids (kidneys) 3x week and lastly laser treatments (ears) once a week. In addition to this, he slept with me so I could take him out to wee wee in the middle of night. He did not have the ability to ask to go outside and would wee wee on the floor if not taken out immediately upon waking up.
Even after all this, I was so fortunate that he shared his life with me. Having a senior pet taught me so much about love and compassion with an older dog. When I received Mr. JoeJo he had just turned 13, and at the time I did not expect him to make it to Christmas. But he made it through two Christmas’.
When he passed on July 8th, of this year my world crumbled. I still cry every time I think of him, and writing this hurts more than anything. I find comfort in knowing that he knew love and had a good life the last 2 years, 1 week that he was with me.
I have decided to share the last moments we had with him, Me, Hubby & Riley. She came along because she wanted to be with her big bro and give him comfort too. In the last few months he suffered from pancreatitis & kidney failure, he had gone from a robust 14lbs to a little over 8lbs all while eating just as much as Riley (17lbs). I had always asked my vet, ‘When will I know?’, while I knew that day it was time as I could no longer keep the pain away. And it hurt me too much to let him feel that way. He would just crawl into my lap and cry… it was time.
Paws It On says
Such a hard thing to go through, but looks like this little guy got much love for the rest of his senior days. So great that you were able to give him that.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you … he was so loved.
Francesca Villa says
Thank you for sharing! This story is so touching that it brought me to tears. JoeJo was so lucky to meet a caring person like you!
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you… I was very lucky to have him love me as much as he did. 🙂
Talent Hounds says
Beautiful story, sad but inspiring. Thanks for sharing – sending hugs X Talent Hounds
Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thanks so much… he meant a lot and I think everyone needs to know how special he was 🙂
The Stately Hound says
Such an inspirational post, we’re all for adopting seniors and for spreading the word of ‘rescue adoption’!
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
I believe you get so much more than you give when you rescue a senior.
Jackie Bouchard says
Oh, it’s so hard to lose them, no matter how long or short a time you’ve had. It’s so wonderful that he had a loving home for his last 2 years with you. He will always be with you in your heart.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you… I sometimes think he took my heart with him… I know he is waiting for me at the rainbow bridge.
Iris aka Boo-bah says
This is such a sweet story. Bless you for making this little dogs last years good ones.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you… he was truly one of a kind… he was an awesome little guy. 🙂
Jody Green says
I’ve adoped a few seniors. It’s always an ordeal at first. Their lives have changed so dramatically. It takes awhile for them to realize that it’s changing for the better. Your story is similar to mine with my Muffin. I adopted her last December. She had ear problems but wouldn’t let anyone come near them without biting. I know it’s a lot of work. (We have the night time romps as well.) But I’m grateful for the opportunity to care for a dog so much in need. And it gladdens my heart to hear that there are others like me. There’s a short post about my muffin here: http://mycrazycanines.blogspot.com/2013/09/meet-family-part-5-muffin.html Come by and visit us. Please rest assured that you were the best thing that ever happened to JoeJo. Thank you so very much for caring. Any tips you can give me are most appreciated.
Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you for stopping by. I will definitely head over to your blog and pass on all my little tips 🙂 I have a bunch… I will get back to you soon 🙂
Nailah Bone says
:: hugs :: Losing them is never easy, is it? 🙁 We lost our golden retriever in 2011 and my mom still can’t be around goldens without getting emotional. That said, Mr. Jojo was lucky to have you to take care of him in his final moments, I’m sure you feel lucky to have been able to share his life too.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
yes I do… he was something else. I am always amazed at how we just clicked 🙂
Lida (Olivia's Human) says
aww, that was so nice of you to 1) take a special needs pet and 2) a senior pet. Either would make him hard to adopt out but both would have made it that much more challenging and unfortunately it doesn’t seem that there are enough people willing to take on such a big responsibility. I’m so glad he got to know how loved and special he was during his time with you, eveery dog deserves nothing less.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
You are so right… I didn’t know what I was getting into with him being a special needs dog. If you look at it, I probably could have taken a very nice European vacation… but that would never have touched my heart the way he did. He deserved everything… and he got it until his little body couldn’t handle it anymore.
Michelle Liew says
Hooray for our senior pets! Misty is 12 years old. She recently had a neurological disorder that left her in seizures for 3 days, but is completely fine now. Thanks for sharing with us!
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
I am so glad she is doing better… I think they become different when they get older… almost like little Yodas… they have so much to offer us.
Kimberly Gauthier says
This is an amazing story. Thank you for sharing. You’re amazing.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you Kimberly… I thought of you a lot while writing this too… we all share this feeling in someway… especially when we are great moms 🙂
SlimDoggy says
I know first hand how heartbreaking it can be to take in a senior, especially one who hasn’t had the best care. Kudos to you for doing that. I’m sure Mr Joe Jo loved you deeply for taking such good loving care of him. Thanks for sharing.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
There have been so many times that I wish I had him from the beginning… I felt very cheated. I just wanted him longer, I think he would have lived longer with better care from the start.
2 brown dawgs says
It was very nice of you to take in a senior and care for him so lovingly.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thanks. He was an awesome little guy.
Vuctoria says
Oh what a beautiful story ! It brings tears to my eyes. Not just tears of sadness but also tears of joy that this baby had such love from you in his last few years. Thank you for that . And thank you for sharing.
Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you so much… It means a lot to me.
Linda says
I also took on a senior rescue, a little smooth Griffon. Amongst other things he had been kicked down stairs so had a bad back injury and was frightened of the whole world. A lot of love and attention brought him almost back to being a normal dog. And although it broke my heart to only be able to spend a few short years with him, I was happy to at least give him a happy ending to an otherwise miserable life. He was known as my “little old man”
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Aww there is something special about the little old men. We called JoeJo our ‘lil guy’ or ‘bubba’. I am glad you had a chance to experience this kind of love.
Tenacious Little Terrier says
I’m glad Mr. JoeJo was able to spend his final golden years with you. Was he ever up for adoption or was he a hospice foster?
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
He was pretty much a hospice foster. He was too ill in the beginning, and after the first 1k I wasn’t going to give him up. I knew I had to give him everything .
Bethany says
What a wonderful story- you brought tears to my eyes! Thank you for sharing it. I know how hard it is… I blogged about my senior pets in August and I sobbed and sobbed but it was also cleansing, in a way. I look forward to more pictures of precious Mr. JoeJo when you feel ready.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you so much… I wish I was able to have him a bit longer… I miss his little head on my shoulder as I sleep, it was his favorite spot.
Andrea (Rocco's House) says
Apparently we have a few Andrea’s in the blog world. 😛
In all seriousness though, what a tender and hard moment to share. Good job on showing him the world could be a good place.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
it has been very hard to share… my goal is to be able to go through all his pics and do an album…. but I am not there yet. I never knew it would hurt this much.
Andrea @ This Pug Life says
You have my utmost respect for taking in seniors, especially those with special needs. My rescue (Stray Rescue of St. Louis) has a hospice type foster program, for dogs to live out their final days in a home instead of a shelter. It’s such an amazing program, but I could never do it myself. Those who do are truly angels on earth.
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Shih Tzu Mommy says
Thank you… but it’s the little seniors who are the angels… I just know in my heart I was touched by one… there will never be anyone like him. :'(
Linda says
I love this idea! Everyone is always eager to adopt the cute fluffy puppies and yet those seniors are so special and still have so much to give.
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